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Can't we stop this Bareback Crap?
Posted by Doug Clark


Agree with me or not. The simple fact is that bareback sex is helping to
spread the HIV virus among the day community. If you want to help stem the
flood of new infections, send yahoo groups a complaint about these groups at
http://add.yahoo.com/fast/help/us/groups/cgi_abuse

I am not an AIDS Nazi or Fascist. I am just an HIV Positive Individual that
has had enough of sex without responsibility.
If the increasing HIV Rate is not slowed, there will not be enough
government resources available to help those that need it.
Oh and to those that are looking to get yourself exposed to the HIV Virus.
Why not just jump out of a airplane without a parachute. You will enjoy the
rush a lot more than laying in a bed in your own waste, covered in KS,
blind, demented, etc.
Am I tough, Fuck Yea
Do I have understanding, NO
There is no justification to explain why someone would deliberately do
something that is known to get you exposed to the HIV Virus.
And so fucking what there are meds, they don't always work, and the side
effects can be horrible.
Want to take pills for the rest of your life, have your liver act up, have
diarrhea, etc?
Complain to yahoo. These groups violate the Yahoo Terms of Service
http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms Section 6a. in that these groups cause
Harm, that being exposing someone to HIV.
Sure he may say he is HIV Negative, but unless you sure, then you don't
really know. Men Lie in order sometimes to get what they want, and some just
feel that "your asking to get exposed anyway by barebacking, so why not give
him my virus, "Breed Him".
Sick, Sick, Sick.

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Posted by GMCarter


On Sun, 28 Sep 2003 00:44:23 GMT, "Doug Clark" <dgls42@earthlink.net>
wrote:

I can totally relate to your shock, horror and anger at this list of
groups that are promoting this insane idea. But does shutting the
groups down make the problem go away? Would it really help?

I'm genuinely uncertain if that is the best strategy. Being a member
of the groups would clearly be a LOT of effort--to bring the message
of what it is like to live with HIV. The good, the bad and the
horrible. And why it makes sense to avoid it.

By contrast, facing these taboo behaviors and the fears, insecurities
and overwhelming desires that underlie them is a daunting prospect
that goes to the deepest roots of the human psyche. Why, especially in
late teens and 20s, many of us have been attracted to the riskier
aspects of life....(tho it's also apparent in older people too!!!!)
Taking G and K and booze and X? Going into convulsions and possibly
dying? That's bad enough--but these drugs, if they don't kill you
outright, one can get over. It is NOT easy--but a lot of us have done
it (tho I came from an era of a different set of drugs).

But HIV is chronic. It's there. For good. Like the hepatitis C in me,
pretty much. It's not the same.

No simple, single solutions...and thanks for posting this list. It is
a rather depressing eye-opener.

I think some of the best answers to how to get folks to rethink this
barebacking stuff will take getting barebackers to open up and be part
of the conversation.

George M. Carter


Posted by Baby Peanut


gmc0@ix.netcom.com (GMCarter) wrote in message news:<3f76b980.5998745@news.verizon.net>...
I would like to point out that the reason the list is so long is that
anyone can create a new Yahoo! group at no cost to themselves. I
sincerly doubt that all of those lists see volumes of traffic.
There's probably only a handful where the people are posting and the
rest lie idle.

Posted by GMCarter


On 29 Sep 2003 07:36:53 -0700, baby_p_nut2@yahoo.com (Baby Peanut)
wrote:

snip....
That sounds quite plausible. Aren't there ways to evaluate the numbers
of messages in a group without necessarily subscribing?

Still--the issue of barebacking is pretty serious. It goes to the root
of the forbidden pleasures, making it all the more alluring. But I
don't think there's any way we can know how popular it is, except by
the incidence rates of HIV and STDs as a loose and probably pretty
non-specific surrogate marker.

How do we convince folks on the one hand that HIV is NOT something one
wants and should try to avoid yet without at the same time fostering
the environment of fear/horror/stigma?

George M. Carter


Posted by Baby Peanut


gmc0@ix.netcom.com (GMCarter) wrote in message news:<3f793af2.60910294@news.verizon.net>...
Better yet, when are we going to stop trying to meddle in everyone's
life? How do you know that they did not come to earth to experience
dying from AIDS? Are you going to ruin their whole life purpose? I
suppose the argument could be made that you came to earth to try to
stop them.

Still, life is ephemeral, death is inevitable, all we are and do is
impermanent. How are we going to convice folks that life is NOT
something one can hold on to yet without at the same time fostering
the environment of fear/apathy?

Posted by GMCarter


On 1 Oct 2003 07:20:49 -0700, baby_p_nut2@yahoo.com (Baby Peanut)
wrote:

snip
LOL...that's an interesting projection!! I am NOT here to control
people or their behavior. I have enough trouble taking care of my own
stuff.

But you raise a good point. I think much of public policy IS about
controlling--or living under the delusion that we can control others.
Sure, there are some immediate, direct ways that we can. Like killing
people. Or enslaving people.

Behavior change programs and policies, however, should be predicated
on the notion of individual autonomy. People WILL choose to have sex
or not, shoot drugs or not, work or not, etc. My comments are more
directed toward how information can be shared to help people make
informed choices.

Is that meddling? One could define it that way, sure. But when people
can avoid something like HIV or reduce the risk of exposure, I think
that is helping people make choices.

I CHOSE to do drugs when I was younger. I CHOSE to let most drugs go.
(I still have the occasional cigarette...ugh....)

An even better question. That is where I think personal spiritual
beliefs and attitudes shape the way choices are made. The illusion of
existence, that maya, is the way we can shape our reality. Is the
boddhisatva vow to end suffering a path to enlightenment? Does it mean
just sitting on one's ass all day meditating? Of course not. Nor does
it mean being nought more than the energizer bunny of samsara, busily
doing and doing and doing and never pausing to reflect on the marvel
of simply breathing.

It's marvelous, temporary....yes, fear and apathy are both there. They
arise. And then they fade, like a morning erection.
George M. Carter


Posted by Brian Mailman


GMCarter wrote:

<observation> we've certainly come a long way from "morning
sunlight/fading on the grass." </observation>.

B/

Posted by GMCarter


On Thu, 02 Oct 2003 09:24:46 -0700, Brian Mailman
<bmailman@sfo.invalid> wrote:

Yes, I think so. But please remind me what this references?? Whitman?
Thanks!
George M. Carter


Posted by Brian Mailman


GMCarter wrote:
Clue: "Chorus: C'mon people, now/Let's get together/and love one another
right now."

Just this cuisinart mind... the earworm* started when I read your
statement.

*music that doesn't stop until you hear the sound of the shot...

B/

Posted by GMCarter


On Fri, 03 Oct 2003 08:50:35 -0700, Brian Mailman
<bmailman@sfo.invalid> wrote:

Oh, it WAS Whitman!! lol...

LOL...love it..thanks! Now the worm is in my head....

Posted by Brian Mailman


GMCarter wrote:
And orchestrated by The Birds (I think) ca. 19...67?
<G>... it was either that or country star Lee Greenwood's "Morning
Ride," which was pretty much about the same thing....

B/